Guarding a Seat and Guarding the Heart
In my memory, during the coldest part of winters back home, nightfall often came early. The biting wind swept over the empty fields like knives, swirling dry straw and dust into the air. Yet winter was also a season full of anticipation. During the agricultural off-season, people have more time for joyous events, and weddings were especially plentiful. Whenever there was a happy event in the village -- a wedding or the birth of a child, well-off families hosting the celebration would invite a fi